1st March 2010

Self Defense For Women – Start With A Sense Of Confidence

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Self defense for women has become a huge issue-from domestic violence to date rape, from assault in a parking lot to rapes on a college campus it seems as though women are the prime targets of these crimes, anytime, anywhere.

Hundreds and thousands of rape cases have been reported around the world, and studies and reports clearly show an increasing trend in this direction. Sadly, most cases go unreported-approximately 95%. Same is the case when it comes to murders, sexual assault, robberies and other crimes. It seems that women are not safe anywhere and vulnerable to different crimes all the time.

Sad to say most women fall into the category of "it happens to the other guy". They think such things cannot happen to them or always happen to other people. WRONG! More and more women are taking proactive steps to help prepare themselves for the day when something might happen-it is the prudent thing to do. Having a sense of self confidence is step number one.

Did You Know?

–One out of four women will be sexually assaulted on a college campus.
–One out of eight women will be raped while in college.
–84% of women who were raped knew their assailant.
–57% of rapes occur on a date.
–75% of male students and 55% of female students involved in date rape had been drinking or using drugs.

Just think about the world we live in today. Statistics show that every two and a half minutes someone in the U.S. is sexually assaulted. This would make you realize that no one is actually safe or immune from violence. It makes sense to be aware and prepare yourself before it’s too late. Save yourself from being the next statistic.

Preparation is the key to success when it comes to self defense for woman. It helps build the self confidence you need to prevail in an assault situation. Experts believe that when an assault occurs most victims are caught off guard, panic and don’t think clearly.

With a little courage, common sense and PRACTICE your survival instincts will kick in. Therefore to excel in the art of self-defense, you must be mentally and physically prepared. Just carrying self-defense weapons or attending a course will not help you anymore. You must keep PRACTICING some self defense tips and techniques so that you are always charged with the confidence to win in an attack.

Stay aware of your environment and do not let yourself to be caught off guard. Get a good self defense instructional DVD that can teach you what you need to know to survive a street attack. Learn the art of fighting back. Learn how to use and carry some non lethal self defense weapons such as stun guns and pepper spray.

Carrying these self defense products and getting the self defense training will offer you a sense of security and confidence and make you feel that you are armed to face an assailant anytime.

Jack Krohn
http://www.articlesbase.com/self-defense-articles/self-defense-for-women-start-with-a-sense-of-confidence-166330.html

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  1. 1 On March 1st, 2010, Kendo said:

    Am I Gonna Be Alone For My Entire Life? Am I A Bad Person For Thinking This? Why Can I Not Get A Girlfriend?
    I have always tried to get a girlfriend, but never was able to. I tried since the 6th Grade. It is so easy for other people. Like there is this one kid in my high school in the same grade as me, I remember once I was in a middle school with him, but he has this best friend who is a girl. I have been trapped in a state where nothing works for me. So I decided to go to a dance and tonight I went to a football game at the high school (I am a freshman). I could not find any girl to socialize with because they all were with guys, I even saw some guys holding their girlfriends, it made me jealous and sick at the same time. I saw a couple other people do that. At the dance it was worse, people held each other to slow songs and even kissed. All I could do was walk around in a circle. I had no one to dance with, every single girl had a guy to dance with (even the not so pretty ones), I had no one. I was reminded of the countless rejections I have received (and no I am not ugly). I listen to my music videos I made (using pictures and a song) on Youtube and it makes me think about it. Some people kiss in the halls, some hug. I just wanna kill them (in a political sense), I just want one of them to pull a knife on me so I can use self defense and MURDER THEM. Ok maybe I am being too harsh. Its not their fault. Ahhh Who am I kidding yes it is. Without one I believe I will become alone. I tried doing all those stuff I keep reading about (you know talk to girls) last year at a different school (my mom moved quite a bit but I believe she wants to stay in the city I live in). I moved 4 times in the last 4 years and still no luck. At the football game I literally wanted to punch someone because of this drawback, but I knew I could not because I am too weak, I would be stopped and thrown in jail, and God would not like it. Make our own destiny, my destiny is written by fate.

    I tried so hard to have my feelings crushed, I rarely have feelings anymore. I dont want them. I keep listening to One Day (more than this album version) by Trading Yesterday and it reminds me of this problem. I have waited patiently long enough for this, yet everyone else gets relationships but me. Now all I want is for a relationship with a wonderful girl, one who is sweet, beautiful in my eyes, kind. But no I get this ruined life. If only I had a childhood friend who was a girl, if I could go back and do it all over again I would. You wanna know something. I am borderline autistic (either that or I have Asperger Syndrome), I have tourettes, I have ADHD, when I was a baby I had a developmental delay. Could this be why? Ok I know this sounds kinda emo, but believe me I’m not. I do not cut myself, because I think it would be a waste of time. I just bottle up everything. I am beginning to think I have no future. I can not start a good conversation with any girl, and if I do the girl is usually dating someone. I also get nervous when talking to girls. I know what you’re gonna say, you are just jealous. Of course I am. You would be too. I just wanna ruin every relationship I see, but I cannot manipulate as good as others can. I am usually sad when I think of not being able to get one. I think I am starting to cry now. Its not the women’s fault that they either A. Date low-lifes who do not deserve to live, B. worthless losers who are not even worthy, or C. whores and sluts who are just doing this for their self-confidence (this last one is uncalled for but I am just so mad). If I could do it all over again I would in a heartbeat. I hate myself for this, I do not deserve life or death (I have no idea what this means). I do hate a lot of people around me, but more importantly I hate myself for being such a stupid, ugly (this contradicts what I said earlier), pathetic, worthless, monster. I cannot even learn to love myself, its impossible. So in conclusion, Am I A Bad Person For Thinking This And For Not Being Able to Get In A Relationship Because I Have Nothing??? Oh and what can I do about this problem???

  2. 2 On March 2nd, 2010, Chelsea said:

    Do you REALLY think someone is going to read ALL of this? lol
    References :

  3. 3 On March 2nd, 2010, Jessee A said:

    You are not a bad person. If you are shy or if it is hard to start a conversation with girls then I understand it is hard because I am just like you. You should keep trying to find a girl. I am sure you will find the right girl but just keep looking. Don’t go with the first girl you find, find someone who you really like and who also likes you for who you are. Just keep trying to find a girl. Go to places where there are girls and talk to them. Always think positive!
    Good Luck!

    Hey that person who answered your question first (Chelsea) is wrong. Some people really do take the time to read all of this. I just read it and I hope my answer helps you. ONce again Good Luck.
    References :

  4. 4 On March 2nd, 2010, Gretchen said:

    1.) You are not a bad person for "THINKING" that.
    2.) You are not a bad person for "not being able to get in a
    relationship".
    3.) One thing you can do about this problem, is to find out what brings
    you happiness, and what you want in life. Also, maybe you could
    try signing up at http://www.myyearbook.com. According to some
    reviews, people have been able to find "that special someone" on
    that website.

    Overall, I would have to say, that you’re human. It’s as simple as that.

    I do understand what you mean. I’ve had some of the same thoughts, but what I have come to realize is that society, to me, says that "being in a relationship is required in order to live a happy life". However, I have found that it’s not about being in a relationship, but about being happy with what you have, who you are, and the ability to do something that brings happiness to others; whether that means being in a relationship, or simply being a friend, or even just helping out a stranger.

    To answer the question about you being alone for your entire life; I don’t have an answer for that, but if you are loving, caring, respectful, patient, understanding, sweet, nice, and kind; then you have a very high chance of finding a girlfriend.
    References :
    My source is my own experience.

  5. 5 On March 2nd, 2010, Jack Krohn said:

    Paul,

    thanks for printing my article. You are supposed to leave all the links intact per the terms.

    Jack

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  7. 7 On June 15th, 2010, admin said:

    Hi Jack

    They are aren’t they I didn’t remove any. were they active in the original?

    Paul

  8. 8 On July 18th, 2010, prolatis said:

    Good overall site enjoyed reading will def bookmark.

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